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The basic human needs and intention list below can help you find common ground with almost anyone. 

We all have Needs and they are expressed and realized through our Intentions. When you want to find common ground, understand that the other person has basic needs that he or she wants fulfilled. Use the following list to help you explore with them what they are and what he or she wants. What their intention is. When you do this you will have a better understanding of them and it will be easier to find common ground and negotiate compromise.  

Basic needs of Humans: 

We want CONNECTION: 
acceptance
affection
appreciation
belonging
cooperation
communication
closeness
community
companionship
compassion
consideration
consistency
empathy
inclusion
intimacy
love
mutuality
nurturing
respect/self-respect
safety
security
stability
support
to know and be known
to see and be seen
to understand and
be understood
trust
warmth

We want PHYSICAL WELL-BEING
air
food
movement/exercise
rest/sleep
sexua...

Going the extra mile is the number one rule for success. Do it in your communicating. Make your communications habits healthy everyday and your relationships will flourish and be vibrant. With consistent healthy communications skills we attract consistent healthy relationships, wealth and peace of mind. 

What does consistency mean in effective communicating and how does it benefit you? How to turn consistent healthy communicating into your advantage. 

If you go to the dentist once or twice a year for cleaning and don’t brush your teeth every day, once or twice, they will rot.

Communications is the same as health hygiene. Going to a seminar about healthy communications techniques a few times won’t keep all your relationships healthy. It takes consistent healthy communications practice to keep work and personal relationships functional and vibrant.

What does consistent healthy communications practice look like?

There are 5 things to do in healthy consistent communications that wins ...